Tonight, my brother (18) and sister (13) were in my car because none of our cars will fit the whole family, and frankly mine is cuter and cooler anyway.
I mentioned that this is the second-heaviest my car ever was, the heaviest being when two of my friends were in it for a short while.
My brother asked “so, which one are you dating, anyway?”
"Are you polygamous?"
I’m not married…to anybody…
I’m allowed to have friends with breasts…
Remind me again how many different girls you’ve had in and out of your life in the last year? I can’t keep track, but then again there could only be a few and I just have a bad memory.
But really. “Which one are you dating?” As if I have to be dating at least one of my female friends, because since I’m not saying I’m gay anymore then I must be into female-bodied people as well.
In fairness, I am…and it’s nice to know that dating multiple people at once would be acceptable…but I’m not…I don’t know what I’m doing, but my siblings don’t need to know that.
I’m stretched WAY too goddamn thin.
Why can’t I just snap the fuck out of it already?
I want to do things I enjoy. Scratch that - I just want to enjoy things. Please?
I don’t WANT to just not feel like doing anything, not feel up to anything, not feel this that and the other thing.
Isn’t that how this is supposed to work? One has to consciously WANT to get better in order to actually get better, right?
As a gay man I find it creepy when straight women fan over gay relationships, both in fictional and real life ones.
There’s something really patronizing about their ‘OMG THEY ARE SO CUTE TOGETHER SO ADORABLE OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGGGGGG’.
Gay relationships are a very real normal thing and when you girls act like that it’s like it’s removing the normality from it and making it something extra special which it isn’t.
Even worse if they find it hot; it’s fetishization it. It’s the same way many lesbian women probably feel disgusted by the hordes of straight men that get turned on by lesbian relationships and only think of them as this ultra hot fantasy.
The thought of straight women getting turned on by me and my boyfriend makes me want to vomit. My relationship is mine and if they are overly fond of it it’s like it’s taking something away from it.
I appreciate your advocacy and support but please start seeing gay relationships in a more mature manner.
I get the distinct impression that my family either doesn’t care where I go or how long I stay, or they feel like I’m abandoning them because I just feel like my home life is so awful and I can’t stand to be around them because I’m such a horrible person.